The woman’s breasts have a particular significance in a woman’s sex life. As a magnetic love pole, radiating energy, they are essential to building up sexual lust. Unfortunately, in conversional sexuality, the yoni, the female sex centre, receives much more attention. However, the yoni is “only” a receptive organ. The yoni, as minus pole, opens in its own time. Only when it answers to the attentive touches of the breasts, the yoni is ready to receive the man.
- Breasts - positive pole of lust
When the plus pole, the female breast, is strengthened, it has an influence on the minus pole. To awaken the willingness in a woman to receive the penis (lingam) of a man, it requires the activation of the breasts. The loving and current touches on the breasts follow after getting the woman into the mood by touching her face and with loving words. However, every woman can activate the sexual stream in her body herself: the breast meditation or the touches of the Tantra breast massage may be used on oneself. Also, repeatedly directing ones attention to the breasts throughout the day strengthens ones femininity and awakens the deeper levels of female lust.
- Breasts heal sexual problems
Once the breasts move centre stage during love play and into the awareness of a woman, the woman awakens to deeper levels of feminine lust and thus becoming easier to reach orgasms. Sex starts to be more fun, body awareness grows and the perception of the sexual processes of the body becomes more sensitive. It is important to learn to feel your breasts from the inside. Therefore the external touches should facilitate the refinement of perception. They should be carried out very delicately and carefully, so that the woman is able to focus her attention on the inside. This exercise facilitates the experience of the inner body. A man bestowing such careful touches on the breasts should be able to control his own sexual impulses and not put the woman under pressure and deviate from her inner processes.
- The breast meditation
Woman can and should focus on their breasts very frequently. Simply holding them with intensified breathing can immediately awaken prickling feelings. Should this not be the case, take your time to discover the magnetic stream within you. Try all the touches of the Tantra massage for the breasts. You can find 25 film clips in the Tantra download section. 25 different touches of the breasts and the implementation of each touch are shown there. Women with sexual problems should practise these careful touches of the breasts together with the perception of the inner body at least five minutes daily throughout a longer period of time (appox. 3 months). It is of little consequence whether this happens during breast massages, breast meditation or love play.
During love play, however, pay attention that breasts and the focus on them receive adequate time and concideration. Deep and slow breathing helps you to listen inside. There is a direct fine inner stream from the nipples to the clitoris.
Particular during love making, women should be conscious of their breasts and feel them from inside. They can imagine greeting, caressing and filling their breasts from inside with a deep breath directed there. During love play, a woman should touch and hold her breasts as often as possible. However, also during daily life attention should be directed to ones breasts again and again. This strengthens the female presence. The woman inside you gains strength which is also felt by the people around you.
A woman who can focus on her breasts for a longer period of time strongly contributes to the erection of a man during love play. During gentle penetration you can experience how this will suck the lingam (penis) of a man into the vagina. Keeping her consciousness in her breasts, a woman contributes to or initiates the erection of a man.