Bert Hellinger is one of the important teachers of wisdom of our time. With his “Family Constellation” work he still provides, even at a ripe age, deeply moving assistance for lives worldwide. On the following pages you can read how Family Constellation flows into the Tantra work with singles, couples and women. You can find recommended materials by and about Bert Hellinger at the Hellinger Shop directly (books, DVD, CD).
Why is Family Constellation integrated in the BeFree Tantra School?
Successful love between man and woman is a declared goal of Regina Heckert’s BeFree Tantra School. As described by Bert Hellinger himself, the three pillars of a fulfilling partnership are:
Each of these three areas can be managed successfully if seen on its own, while each of the others lie “fallow”. If a couple succeeds to connect sexuality and love of the heart and through that is strengthened to tackle life together better, a deep sustaining love blooms.
Tantra is the path to consciousness and love – in all areas of life. Nevertheless western Tantra schools dedicate themselves primarily to sexuality. This is not only good but necessary. The free and fulfilling expression of sexual love is suppressed all around the world, which brings with it all outgrowths which this causes. On the whole freeing the enormous basic sexual life energy causes a refreshing liveliness. However, often the hearts of people are closed, too. Particularly women by nature long to connect the sexual lust with the love of the heart. If this isn’t possible on a long-term basis, women withdraw from sexuality completely. Regina Heckert’s experience in twenty years of Tantra work agree with Bert Hellinger’s insights. Carrying out sexual love has definite priority for a successful partnership. Sometimes women have the tendency to switch this order and put the love of the heart in first place. The insights of BeFree Tantra work, however, clearly and definitely confirm the order given above.
Because of each person’s own life story and the complicated entanglements with the family of origin, for many couples it is not possible to live the above-mentioned three areas in a fulfilling way long-term. Hindrances butt in as challenges to love. Mastering these challenges deepens, widens and strengthens the love of two people. Using the Constellation work by Bert Hellinger many people can be helped enormously by investigating the three areas and opening themselves up as much as is possible at that point.
Tantra offers many helpful tools as well. In applying the Constellation work by Bert Hellinger, however, the BeFree Tantra School has experienced a quantum leap. What good is the most beautiful Tantra massage when the couple is moving apart on a deep emotional level? Where the orders of love are recognized and respected, the helpful Tantra tools can be applied permanently in the service of love.
In the following sections you can find a few select examples of how Family Constellation enriches and deepens Tantra work – and sometimes makes Tantra work at all possible. This is only a selection. It is not possible to present the entire impact of Family Constellation on Tantra work. The knowledge is too vast for that. Bert Hellinger’s work is treated in over 40 books already.