The yoni

The picture series "Clay-Yonis" » contains 35 pictures. They were made during Tantra seminars for women » which focused on worshipping and healing the female sex. It is not commonplace for every woman to look at her own yoni in a mirror. Many need quite a while before they can view this part of themselves as a beautiful and unique “magic blossom”. To make it easier, the yoni of each woman was decorated with flowers. This beautiful picture series "Flower Yoni-" » is unfortunately x-rated; you will find it in the Tantra Download, however. Another, very extensive, series of yonis also originated in numerous Tantra seminars for women. For most women it was a big step to open up so that another woman could take a picture of her yoni. The picture gallery speaks for itself: each yoni is unique and cannot be compared with another. Try it out yourself – see whether you discover joy and beauty when looking at the various yoni pictures. Discomfort, shame and resistance may well arise. Should this be the case, you have just proven that the natural contact with the female sex has been lost in our time. However a new way of seeing, with admiration and marvel, can be rediscovered. Once the initial reservation is overcome, it is really fun to finally be able to look at and explore the many marvels of creation in detail. There are men who have never been able to look at the yoni of their partner as closely as shown on the pictures. So much unexpressed admiration is still waiting for the female sex!

Perhaps, as a woman, you might find here the support to explore, look at, decorate, paint or draw, model in clay or caress your own yoni. Are you good with words? Then you might dedicate a poem to her or let her “talk” for herself. When you as a woman lovingly concern yourself with your own yoni, not only do you increase the female power in yourself, but you also do good to the collective womanhood. You help female sexuality be freed from the corner of depreciation, being used, and oppression. This creates a solid base for good sexuality as woman.

If you, as man, have arrived on this page, BeFree Tantra warmly welcomes you in the name of all women. Every man who joins us on the path of respect, admiration and even adoration of femininity and the yoni multiplies the liberation of all women and builds a bridge over the past to a new love lust in the magic of a regained presence in the now.

Worldwide, female sexuality is even more oppressed than male sexuality. Women who dare to live their sexuality as they please are called whore, hooker, tart, etc. and easily land at the edge of society. Religions generally split sexuality off. For example the “chaste virgin Mary”, intended to be the ideal for women, to whom amazingly the merry month of May has been dedicated, is the greatly reduced leftover of a sensual and voluptuous spring goddess whose joy in mating or copulation was appropriately celebrated as “holy wedding”.

Worldwide millions of women and little girls are still being mutilated genitally. Isn’t there a cry of horror from collective female sexuality? Many women have experienced sexual abuse, rape or other painful sexual incidents. Particularly long-term, strenuous, vigorous sex practised under pressure and force (e.g. forcing orgasms, time pressure) has left its traces: Whether the fate of the individual woman comes into play or the collective burden of sexual bondage of many women: the yoni calls us to start off together on the journey to liberation and healing. The work in the circle of women is an enormous contribution. Every injury to female sexuality is stored in the tissue of the yoni, sometimes as notable as a tension and can intensify to a “cramp.” Through a yoni massage, bringing consciousness and presence to this area, free of ‘intent’, deep relaxation can begin. Frequent yoni massages can release the “old” and awaken a new, healing and conscious sexuality. Many men have joined us on this not so easy path. Every woman should be particularly grateful to them.

The BeFree Tantra School of Love Online contributes pictures, text and film clips as manual for the yoni massage, so every yoni that is ready to unfold fully may do so – into loving tenderness as well as into wild, gorgeous passion. This is what she is created for. This is how she is meant to be.

Vulva, womb, genesis and source – the yoni is the gate to freedom. She teaches the path to real, female, joy-filled lust. She teaches every woman and every man, when she is looked at, respected, honoured, admired and adored.